Just what do i do now?
They call Social Distancing the New-normal, but is it really? Before Covid-19, many singles practicedSocial Distancing in various ways: divorced, vowing never to marry or liveunder the same roof with a partner again, Social Distancing; some, their hearts broken, or players, and those who broke hearts, practiced Social Distancing, a routine in their game. We interacted with others when we wanted or felt like being bothered. So, Social Distancing isn't at all new.But, Corona expanded the practice, and added a new step to the process, Social Isolation. Before Corona, both Social Distancing and Social Isolation were in-house, "personal and private" practices. Corona made both processes public. That extension, applied the practices literally "everything" outside of the home. Though deadly like Ebola, we thought Corona would be short term, and we could weather this storm. Not only is it not short term, so many haven't weathered the storm, it's a pandemic. It left many many of us singles "alone", in forced Social and Self Isolation. It's no fun y'all! My married, my shacking-up and friends with children/parents/relatives and others, have human touch and person to person contact; the rest of us, home-alone. Phone calls are great, but don't fulfill the need for human contact. One home-alone friend has resorted todrastic measures to have some kind face to face human contact. I offered to do a "home drive-by" where I honked my horn and yelled toher from my car window, as another friend did with me. It was a new, fun and welcomed experience. But my home-alone friend declined. Oh well!I have heard from almost every single, home-alone ex I had. I didn't know they still had my number. Even one married-miserable ex, called me. LOL! I've gotten pleas, apologies for past deeds, requests and pledges for the future, even a marriage proposal. Nothing's changed!The ritual of adding new love to your life, is a tedious process unto itself! And given the expanded new-normal of Social Distancing, what criteria or process do I use to allow a new lover into my life? It is now something we all must consider if we value living. Corona isn't going away anytime soon. Some single folks aren't in isolation and continue to take the risks; some haven't stopped living in theirplayer-player world, doing instant hook-ups and meet-ups; some don't even mind Social Isolation; some have decided to go mono-mono route and add a special person to their lives so they can play where they stay. To all of these folks I say, woo wooo! I still haven't made a decision. So, Just What Do I Do Now? Help me out y'all!
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